my other blog for Michael Spencer's review of this book. These excerpts from his comments tell a bit of the story:
"Marin tells stories of being rejected by gays he wanted to befriend. But he makes it clear that the defining experience for thousands of gays was their treatment by Christians, and that treatment wasn’t speaking the truth in love, commitment, perseverance and kindness."
"Many gays are angry and hurt. Most of them were mistreated by people like me."